On Orion Taraban (and relationships in general and how to succeed in them) - Part II

A female reader's comment spark a longer post...

Missy (whom I appreciate as a reader as she invariably gives a very needed female perspective on things I write about) made the following comment, which, as my brain is won’t to do, sparked a whole host of various thoughts and pathways. the result of which is the post below the image of her comment. Before you get tot hat though, it may be useful for your own purposes to read some other posts I had done previously on the OG blog. While they are nominally also about Orion (so you can see my view of him has never really deviated) the purposes of them was really far more to give you useful tools to navigate the dating/relationship/marriage scene.

I had written about Orion briefly over a year ago, and even then, you can see that right from the start, despite an apparently positive overall view of some aspect of his conceptualising relationships, my perspective was far beyond his. Although I do say so myself, if you are a woman that wonders why men “don’t respect you” or a man who is sick of “all the bullshit women come up with”, I sincerely suggest you read this whole post at the OG blog, as I truly believe it may give you a far more positive perspective on the opposite sex than you might currently have, as well as some pointers on what to look for in order to perhaps become more likely to find the right person for you.

I also did a follow on post that absolutely gave men the silver bullet as to HOW to get into a relationship with women in general, which apparently was (and remains) a non-obvious fact for most men. So you might want to read that too.

I also had a third post specifically on Orion that was longer, more subtle, and yet pointed out his main flaw rather clearly even then. This one is probably for the more intellectual among you, but may be useful. After all, if you are reading this I assume it’s either because you are curious about human relations with members of the opposite sex in general, trying to get into one, or improve the one you are already in, so… it may be worth your time.

Anyway, here is Missy’s comment that sparked all this off:

And here is the reply I had started typing before I realised it would be a post.

Yes, as I said to another commenter, it looks to me that his sexual desires outpaces his ability to fulfil them. I didn’t really comment on the rest of this video, but if you hear it through to the end he discusses (bringing in gay lifestyle as a counter-example) how (if we boil down his bafflegarble) he would like to have multiple sex partners without stigma. And this too is also a direct reflection of the fact he has yet to really understand the nature of a real relationship.

Once you remove the real purpose of a relationship (making and raising children, helping each other evolve as human beings, companionship, a shared future, etc etc [and yes, pretty much in that order]) “relationships” basically becomes sport fucking for fun and profit. And no matter how sporty a fuck you get with, sooner or later, you want to try riding a different ride. In terms of secularism, today that is mostly reduced to serial “monogamy” continuous “cheating” or an arrangement of swinging/hotwifing/cuckoldry.

If I had to guess I would say Orion would prefer to have an “Open” relationship in which he gets to “play the field”. In part driven by his sexual desire¹ and in part by the intellectual realisation that some men do live that way (and he thinks, if they can, why can’t I? which is really a kind of Gamma/Omega/slightly retarded-autistic trait that I have seen multiple low SSH men exhibit [thinking: “If *he* can so can *I*!” When the reality is, no you can’t]).

But he thinks in that way because ultimately that is all secularism has to offer.

Absent God (and then I HAVE to say, absent the Catholic God, and then I HAVE to say: the ACTUAL Catholic version, not the Novus Orco Freemason shadow) life is a pretty brutal affair.

I know because I lived that way for the first 42 years of my life. And I did “very well” insofar as what that realm has to offer. I didn’t care about material wealth as much as I did about certain skills, certain things I was curious about, and the pleasure of being with beautiful and sexual women, and I indulged those things deeply.

Which is why I developed various skills to a high level where I am in fact, without a doubt, and without exaggeration, in the top 1% of people who indulge in those skills (martial arts, hypnosis, understanding of the human neurology related to both, a grasp of some aspects of supposed ESP functions) and in all honesty, in several of them quite probably am in the top 0.1% if not 0.01%²

But as far as the indulging in the female form went, I never remained jaded. An intrinsic link to reality that some might call faith, even long before I was any kind of religious, inevitably told me there was a reason, and a good reason, for any situation or event or series of them that appeared illogical or wrong in some overall aspect of life. On some level I knew it was me processing the information erroneously that was the problem, not nature itself. I just had the wrong or at least an artificial perspective that needed to re-align with reality, nature and ultimately God too (even if at the time my concept of god was very far removed from a personal one that specifically cared about any of us individually or even more absurdly, me in particular).

This link, for all that Orion implies he is looking for it, he does not have. He is blinded by the material aspect of life, while I, even at my most atheistic, was always at the very least a fatalist. I have never made any relevant decision in my life based on mere materialistic logic, in fact, quite the opposite. I have always followed the numinous, the unseen but felt, the sense of what felt right to me despite the “evidence” of boomer logic, financial prospects, materialistic benefits and so on.

On some level, I never trusted material reality, or even my own eyes more than I trusted what I felt in the quiet depths of my heart. Not the emotions, not the ephemeral sensations or passions, but the calm, silent knowing that resides in our deepest part of who we are.

Maybe not everyone has the ability to sense that at all times, certainly we all make mistakes when we ignore it or suppress it, which as all humans make errors I did too at times, but overall, if I sit still inside, and sense, I know which direction I should go, and hard as it sometimes is, doing so inevitably ends up being the better decision overall. I can’t speak to those who can’t sense that aspect of themselves, it is an absolute mystery to me how such people even exist. It would be like asking me to understand a species of human that somehow lives without breathing.

I do think living and being raised in an environment that is raw and natural, as I did in Africa, certainly helps in that regard, and perhaps it was also the general boomer absence of parenting aside the most basic rules that did it too, I can’t say, but I also believe most of that ability is innate. I do think we all have it, but some people seem to be cut off from it. In my opinion, mostly due to believing the lies of the secular world and its traps and lies.

If you could see the truth of reality, the baseline of it, a layer of it that sustains all that is actually here and you see and touch and think about, it is a level that is non-physical, a realm that is sustained only by the very real prospect of love. A word that Orion absolutely has no understanding of. See how he talks about Christ in the video I linked to in the previous post. Orion is lost. Lost in secularism. Lost in materialism. Lost in the brick and mortar world he inhabits without ever knowing what or who created things that way and what the way out of the cage is.

I can critique his personal failings all day, as anyone intelligent can of most people, but that’s not the point. The point is Orion is missing that fundamental self-knowledge of who he really is what he really can and can’t do, and why.

In a simplified version: As a kid I would have loved to become an astronaut. But… the reality is that my assumptions about what that entailed to achieve were not even as wrong as my assumptions about what it would be like to actually be an astronaut. And in retrospect, had I tried to be on that path, my life would have been absolutely awful. Orion is like the kid that still is trying to be an astronaut, but he hasn’t got the prime essence to be one, the skill for it, or really, the purpose for it.

For all that Orion gives “sound advice” to men who are struggling with relationships, the reality is that he’s really only perpetuating an advanced form of secularism, that, as always, is very alluring, but ultimately leads you down a path that descends to Hell. Yes metaphorically, but also in reality and spiritually if you care to know.

But my point here is not a religious one per se. The way of Orion leads to pain, ultimately. And failure.

You would be far better off reading the notes this lady posts and trying to really process them honestly.

Anyway, I hope this helps some of you get off the yellow-bricked road to the lies behind the curtain and onto the hard and narrow path of Truth.

1. Which, again, this is along the lines of single data point pattern recognition, but it appears clear to me that Orion is missing the kind of “satisfaction” or maybe the better word is satiation that comes from having had truly your fill of whatever sexual experiences with a woman you wanted to have. The key point in achieving this satiation is that of having a woman (or many women) do those things with you out of their own free will and wanting to do so. Any coercing, pushing for, forcing of the issue, paying for it and so on, generally leaves a man that seeks it increasingly frustrated, embittered and somewhat hate-filled toward women and the men who do receive such treatment from them. Orion is probably intelligent enough to lean more towards dismissal (of men like me and the advice I might dispense) and hiding behind his material success as a “comparative” (which is a fake metric since it’s comparing apples and donkeys) than he is in turning outwardly bitter and resentful in a more obvious way.

2. Yes, yes, bitch and moan about my “arrogance”, all you want, it makes no difference to me, but remember that false humility is not a virtue.